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A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (53) Seattle, Washington
I am looking for a relationship/life partner who enjoys the kinky life and hoping that this site will help me find someone like minded when it comes to the physical part BUT that is also looking to move forward in life with someone. I am not looking for anything casual or strictly physical. I’m at a point in life where I want to find that someone who is attracted to more than just my body. Again, I am very into kinks, playing out fantasies, teasing, tension build up, etc. but I am looking to do that with someone who wants more than just the sex. If this seems like you please reach out and let’s get to know each other. I’m into D/S relationship (I’m a brat/sub). If you made it this far and you think we are both looking for the same things please message I would love to get to know you better. Now I’m a little anal girl just realized how good it feels
Female (33) Seattle, Washington
Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender configuration. Enjoy being spanked/flogged/otherwise physically punished (within limits) intermixed with being given pleasure and being told I’m a good girl. Bit of a CNC vibe, but that obviously needs to be well-negotiated - I love a good ball gag. Have recently discovered that I am an avid rope bunny, looking for experienced Riggers to increase my exposure. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. My bucket-list fantasy would be multiple men, either in a group setting or taking turns. Safety PSA: I am looking for someone who does not have hangups about the use of condoms for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but it’s not my jam.
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Kinky and looking to explore so submissive kinks and fantasies. So looking for a couple where woman would be the primary dominant or another dominant woman alone. NO SINGLE MEN!
Female (21) Seattle, Washington
Hi beautiful humans. We are a married, open minded, adventurous couple looking to connect with couples, women, and trans women who are curious, playful, respectful, and into shared chemistry and exploration. I am sensual, warm, and HSV positive and on daily antivirals. He is negative. We believe honesty and communication are part of what makes things sexy, so we are very upfront about that. If you are HSV positive as well, we ask that you are also on treatment. We love flirting, building real connection, and then seeing where the spark goes. Some of our favorite things include boating on sunny days, camping under the stars, traveling whenever we can, video game nights, time at the gun range, and all kinds of spontaneous adventures in between. We are looking for people who enjoy romance, playful energy, and exploring kinks together in a way that feels safe, fun, and mutually exciting. If you are kind, curious, and a little bit naughty in the best way, we would love to hear from you. Let’s see if our energy matches ✨
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Bbw looking for fun. Love kink. Love getting oral and giving if everything goes well. I'll play nice for now 😈. I have been told I have a crazy wild awesome sex vibe and I taste sweet like honey.
Female (40) Seattle, Washington
I value honesty, kindness, and depth. I enjoy meaningful conversations more than small talk. I love good food, good company, and the occasional quiet night in. I’m looking for someone who communicates openly and appreciates the simple, real parts of life. Let’s build something steady and sincere.
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
Brand new to the scene 🤪. In the process of figuring out who I am and the things that turn me on. I know this one thing for sure, I don't want to spend time pleasing another and not experiencing mind blowing pleasure as well. I've been neglected by my past relationships, but not anymore because I am not giving up on feeling good. I hope there is someone here that has laot more knowledge about this life style that is willing to invest time and patience for I badly crave it.
Female (48) Seattle, Washington
Hi, I’m a woman who doesn’t want to submit to fate. I have many hobbies and a lot of life experiences. I wish to have a father who truly understands and knows me; I long for the kind of love that exists between a father and daughter. My father always takes care of me with kindness and consideration. I don’t use *** and I’m very healthy; I get a full check-up every year. I like gentlemen who are humorous and witty, as well as elegant and artistic ladies. Please put away your photos of your penis—it’s really small, lol.
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
I will always maintain a healthy and positive lifestyle. I believe happiness is a choice, and I actively work to banish negative thoughts and memories from my mind. I want a real relationship, I envision a reliable man by my side, someone who is not only responsible for his actions but also embodies a deep sense of love and commitment. Someone I can trust implicitly with my dreams and vulnerabilities. I'm naturally a shy type, so I might be a little quiet at first, but I'm a good listener. I'm curious to hear what you're passionate about, whether it's something in the kink world, a hobby, or what you're having for dinner
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
Easygoing and adventurous, I love exploring new places and trying new things. I'm passionate about fishing and enjoy the beach. Looking for someone to share fun experiences with and build a genuine connection.
Female (30) Seattle, Washington
I’m interested in making friends and find some fun kinks to explore
Female (47) Seattle, Washington
sofi 🤞 From UK shores to US skies, 💫 A soul that moves with purpose and grace. Yoga flows and gym beats, Skincare rituals, a daily embrace.🤳 Investing wisely in stone and code, Family roots deep, ***hood’s light. Balancing wellness, work, and heart Living fully, shining bright. Wandering paths where nature calls,🏔🌎 Traveling wide, breaking walls. A foodie’s taste for life’s delight, Savoring flavors, day and night.🌙
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.
Female (65) Seattle, Washington
I’m short, witty and a bit bratty. I like to push limits and have mine pushed a bit as well. I need someone who’s okay with being dominant, even to the point of helping me choose what I wear or how I do my hair/makeup. I like praise and I like having direction. I’d love to actually date my dom and have a more than sexual relationship.
Female (27) Seattle, Washington
Hewwo, you can call me little bun! 🐰💗 I am a little looking for a virtual daddy to take care of me, joke around, and have fun playtime with. Though you don’t need to be a sugar daddy, that would be a nice plus heheh
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
Update April 2025: Im not currently looking for a new dynamic. Thank you for checking my profile though! I’m married and in an open relationship with my husband, hoping to find a genuine D/s dynamic with a rigger who’s excited to learn and grow in rope play and shibari. I’m new to rope but deeply passionate about exploring it and building meaningful experiences. I’m not here for casual hook-ups or to be a placeholder for someone waiting to find their next partner. What I truly want is a deep, authentic connection—something serious and fulfilling. I’m yoga practitioner, bread baker, snowboarder, and love being outside! If this resonates with you and you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person, please send a thoughtful, creative message. Let’s see if we vibe.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
bisexual woman with limited sexual experience, looking to learn more about intimacy and my own desires. I accept pics, and if I like what I see, I may send some back :)
Female (31) Seattle, Washington
-Kinky Bi Slut -Switch -Masochist -Exhibitionist -100% Brat I am currently looking for someone to do DVP with myself and my partner. I have met so many amazing people on Fet. I am always down to connect and chat. If you are funny and interesting, I’m much more likely to reply.
Female (37) Seattle, Washington
Just a little spicy switch with a HEAVY brat energy and a THICC personality. Just like a sour patch kid - sour then sweet, but always tasty; you can try to make me listen 🤣 Pansexual, but here for the ladies. Femme for Femme 💅 Men, you can try to get my attention...and I may entertain you for a minute...but ultimately, not interested. You can still tell me how pretty I am though 😏
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
23 years old // Seeking SUBMISSIVE MALE. 25-30 NO exceptions. A man who’s pleasure is derived from Honoring, worshipping and serving the woman they care for and love. Devotion outside of the bedroom and Desire to please me in the bedroom. A man who truly worships the beautiful black woman that i am. You must have a sense of humor and be a good conversationalist. If you enjoy video games and horror movies thats a bonus but not a requirement….I have a strong tug towards men who can clean well, stay organized and cook amazing food. I indulge in : Petplay, mummification, mdlb, service submission , sounding , restraining & restriction, denial, overstim, chastity, light cbt , ***, intox, massages, foot worship. no hookups. I’m not ur fetish vending machine. A dynamic will only come after maintaining a relationship of mutual respect , emotional intelligence & interests & commonalities or differences OUTSIDE of kink. IM A PERSON BEFORE IM A DOMME. I know that concept is foreign to the mass majority of the brainless male species. I don’t entertain men under 25, “stoners” , patchy pube beards, Dry messages or out of state messages, Men who don’t have a job, men who don’t own a car. Men who’s penis rules their life and men who have no respect or decency even behind a screen.
Female (23) Seattle, Washington
28 year old sub who is a feral brat and needs someone to tame her - too many daddy issues to count so that has to count for something, right? i need someone to match my brat energy but loves loyalty and some affection paired with intellect. because that’s me but also, i freaking LOVE being spoiled. small gifts, affection, action, etc. married - newly polyamorous and play alone. 420 friendly, pursing my PhD, and love meeting new people and traveling.
Female (29) Seattle, Washington
Hey I am 27 in the Seattle area. Some things I’m into: Sims, roller skating, reading, violin, learning to play the harp, drawing/coloring, I love a good psychological thriller, into the occult, hypnosis, remote viewing, psychology and human biology buff. Favorite song is Submerge Till We Become The Sun by Maxwell. Here for sub(s) as well as friends, send me a message if interested and tell me what u enjoy kink and vanilla. To the subs who are interested: I’m here for lifestyle service based subs. Open to sessions that also would involve toy(s), rp, heavy rubber, vac, edge play, needle/med, pyro, hypno, mind control, brainwashing, witchcraft, and pegging (just to name a few) ON TOP of lifestyle/service. I’m really into the energy exchange when it comes to lust lol I dunno if anyone will understand what I mean by this, but if you can guess then go ahead and tell me what you think I mean. Also if you know your Mars, Moon and Venus astrological placements lmk.
Female (27) Seattle, Washington
Demisexual and connection-first. I’m a switch, but I don’t switch with the same person. Sadomasochist, emotionally intelligent, and big on communication, trust, and getting to know someone before anything else.
Female (35) Seattle, Washington

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Easygoing and adventurous, I love exploring new places and trying new things. I'm passionate about fishing and enjoy the beach. Looking for someone to share fun experiences with and build a genuine connection.
Female (30) Seattle, Washington
Hi, I’m a woman who doesn’t want to submit to fate. I have many hobbies and a lot of life experiences. I wish to have a father who truly understands and knows me; I long for the kind of love that exists between a father and daughter. My father always takes care of me with kindness and consideration. I don’t use *** and I’m very healthy; I get a full check-up every year. I like gentlemen who are humorous and witty, as well as elegant and artistic ladies. Please put away your photos of your penis—it’s really small, lol.
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
I value honesty, kindness, and depth. I enjoy meaningful conversations more than small talk. I love good food, good company, and the occasional quiet night in. I’m looking for someone who communicates openly and appreciates the simple, real parts of life. Let’s build something steady and sincere.
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
I will always maintain a healthy and positive lifestyle. I believe happiness is a choice, and I actively work to banish negative thoughts and memories from my mind. I want a real relationship, I envision a reliable man by my side, someone who is not only responsible for his actions but also embodies a deep sense of love and commitment. Someone I can trust implicitly with my dreams and vulnerabilities. I'm naturally a shy type, so I might be a little quiet at first, but I'm a good listener. I'm curious to hear what you're passionate about, whether it's something in the kink world, a hobby, or what you're having for dinner
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
Hewwo, you can call me little bun! 🐰💗 I am a little looking for a virtual daddy to take care of me, joke around, and have fun playtime with. Though you don’t need to be a sugar daddy, that would be a nice plus heheh
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.
Female (65) Seattle, Washington
sofi 🤞 From UK shores to US skies, 💫 A soul that moves with purpose and grace. Yoga flows and gym beats, Skincare rituals, a daily embrace.🤳 Investing wisely in stone and code, Family roots deep, ***hood’s light. Balancing wellness, work, and heart Living fully, shining bright. Wandering paths where nature calls,🏔🌎 Traveling wide, breaking walls. A foodie’s taste for life’s delight, Savoring flavors, day and night.🌙
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
I am looking for a relationship/life partner who enjoys the kinky life and hoping that this site will help me find someone like minded when it comes to the physical part BUT that is also looking to move forward in life with someone. I am not looking for anything casual or strictly physical. I’m at a point in life where I want to find that someone who is attracted to more than just my body. Again, I am very into kinks, playing out fantasies, teasing, tension build up, etc. but I am looking to do that with someone who wants more than just the sex. If this seems like you please reach out and let’s get to know each other. I’m into D/S relationship (I’m a brat/sub). If you made it this far and you think we are both looking for the same things please message I would love to get to know you better. Now I’m a little anal girl just realized how good it feels
Female (33) Seattle, Washington
Bbw looking for fun. Love kink. Love getting oral and giving if everything goes well. I'll play nice for now 😈. I have been told I have a crazy wild awesome sex vibe and I taste sweet like honey.
Female (40) Seattle, Washington
I’m short, witty and a bit bratty. I like to push limits and have mine pushed a bit as well. I need someone who’s okay with being dominant, even to the point of helping me choose what I wear or how I do my hair/makeup. I like praise and I like having direction. I’d love to actually date my dom and have a more than sexual relationship.
Female (27) Seattle, Washington
I’m interested in making friends and find some fun kinks to explore
Female (47) Seattle, Washington
A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (53) Seattle, Washington
Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender configuration. Enjoy being spanked/flogged/otherwise physically punished (within limits) intermixed with being given pleasure and being told I’m a good girl. Bit of a CNC vibe, but that obviously needs to be well-negotiated - I love a good ball gag. Have recently discovered that I am an avid rope bunny, looking for experienced Riggers to increase my exposure. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. My bucket-list fantasy would be multiple men, either in a group setting or taking turns. Safety PSA: I am looking for someone who does not have hangups about the use of condoms for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but it’s not my jam.
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Hi beautiful humans. We are a married, open minded, adventurous couple looking to connect with couples, women, and trans women who are curious, playful, respectful, and into shared chemistry and exploration. I am sensual, warm, and HSV positive and on daily antivirals. He is negative. We believe honesty and communication are part of what makes things sexy, so we are very upfront about that. If you are HSV positive as well, we ask that you are also on treatment. We love flirting, building real connection, and then seeing where the spark goes. Some of our favorite things include boating on sunny days, camping under the stars, traveling whenever we can, video game nights, time at the gun range, and all kinds of spontaneous adventures in between. We are looking for people who enjoy romance, playful energy, and exploring kinks together in a way that feels safe, fun, and mutually exciting. If you are kind, curious, and a little bit naughty in the best way, we would love to hear from you. Let’s see if our energy matches ✨
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Brand new to the scene 🤪. In the process of figuring out who I am and the things that turn me on. I know this one thing for sure, I don't want to spend time pleasing another and not experiencing mind blowing pleasure as well. I've been neglected by my past relationships, but not anymore because I am not giving up on feeling good. I hope there is someone here that has laot more knowledge about this life style that is willing to invest time and patience for I badly crave it.
Female (48) Seattle, Washington
Kinky and looking to explore so submissive kinks and fantasies. So looking for a couple where woman would be the primary dominant or another dominant woman alone. NO SINGLE MEN!
Female (21) Seattle, Washington
Update April 2025: Im not currently looking for a new dynamic. Thank you for checking my profile though! I’m married and in an open relationship with my husband, hoping to find a genuine D/s dynamic with a rigger who’s excited to learn and grow in rope play and shibari. I’m new to rope but deeply passionate about exploring it and building meaningful experiences. I’m not here for casual hook-ups or to be a placeholder for someone waiting to find their next partner. What I truly want is a deep, authentic connection—something serious and fulfilling. I’m yoga practitioner, bread baker, snowboarder, and love being outside! If this resonates with you and you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person, please send a thoughtful, creative message. Let’s see if we vibe.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
I am often described as a very strong and controlling person, a perfectionist. But I think it's those qualities that make me incredibly submissive to the right person who I can trust, who communicates. I don't want to HAVE to be strong and in control all the time! I love it when someone is so in tuned and communicative, respectful, that I feel safe relinquishing all control of my actions and every inch of my body to their will. I like Doms/Dommes who understand that the true power held is that of the submissive who gives full consent to be used, ***d, degraded and so on 😈 Fan of CNC role play, being hunted, stalked, ***ed, etc as it helps me overcome past traumas. Would love to get tied up more often. 💦 play all day. Love anal, it makes my pussy so wet. I can be a brat, need someone strong enough to slap me around and make me shut tf up 😁 Love playing outside, whether in the car, camping, wherever's clever really. Into having my throat fucked past its limit, ***, lots of things I know I love, and many more I may not have thought of.
Female (29) Seattle, Washington
I'm a 49 year old nanny, I have learned that I enjoy being a submissive. love wearing lingerie.
Female (49) Seattle, Washington
I’m the kind of woman who loves a night out with friends, getting a little dressed up, and grabbing the karaoke mic like I’m on stage at a concert. Confidence, laughter, and good vibes are my thing. I appreciate someone who can make me laugh, keep up with my playful side, and isn’t afraid to have fun. Bonus points if you’ll sing a duet with me (even if we’re both terrible). 😉
Female (43) Seattle, Washington
Femdom. Think the most popular mean girl in school. 🍎 Virtually exploring this hobby with good boys ONLY. ⛓️ ***am channel: @nek0s_channel
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
I’m a busy woman, my free time is limited and my hours are not “normal”. Looking for a proper dom who, who will treat me with respect, kindness, and care.
Female (39) Seattle, Washington
bisexual woman with limited sexual experience, looking to learn more about intimacy and my own desires. I accept pics, and if I like what I see, I may send some back :)
Female (31) Seattle, Washington
sweet, funny, sensitive, creative, and bratty at times. I really love listening to and playing music (rock, folk, Motown, Latin). in the bedroom, I’m seeking a gentle but assertive dom/top. I’m bi and single, and willing to see where things go. I’m open to being in a relationship if we’re a good match. musicians and outdoorsy types to the front. I’m a free spirited person who’s worked in a few different fields. I love to read and write fiction. 🍬
Female (29) Seattle, Washington

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