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not really looking for a relationship just looking for someone to have fun with on occasion. If your a clingy person don't hit me up.
Female (21) Seattle, Washington
A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (53) Seattle, Washington
Brand new to the scene πŸ€ͺ. In the process of figuring out who I am and the things that turn me on. I know this one thing for sure, I don't want to spend time pleasing another and not experiencing mind blowing pleasure as well. I've been neglected by my past relationships, but not anymore because I am not giving up on feeling good. I hope there is someone here that has laot more knowledge about this life style that is willing to invest time and patience for I badly crave it.
Female (49) Seattle, Washington
I'm a motivated, responsible, and hardworking person with a positive outlook on life. I enjoy learning, growing, and making the most of every opportunity. MARYAKISIKA Five5One Could link us GM
Female (37) Seattle, Washington
I'm a single mistress, fun and loving but a strict one. Imagine yourself disappearing from everyday life to find yourself in my world, where your fantasies can come true. Control is a mind-state where I take total dominance of your mind, body and soul, where I govern and you follow and do exactly what I say and expect. When you meet me, you will see how smooth and elegant I move around you and you will adore me as I play with you and your mind in fantasy land, where you will honour Me.
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
Not here to babysit time wasters. I value loyalty, consistency, and proper manners. Know your place, speak with respect, and don’t mistake kindness for weakness. Good behavior gets rewarded. Disrespect gets ignored
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
Monika is my name a single woman here looking to find love and be happy with a true single man. I’m looking for a man who isn’t here to play games but here to connect have some fun and to see where it leads us to. If you find me interesting don’t hesitate to get intouch. I don’t bite lol.
Female (49) Seattle, Washington
πŸ–€ YOUR FAVORITE ALTERNATIVE SOFT DOMME πŸ–€ Welcome to my bat corner of the internet. I’m an alternative BBW Soft Domme who has been part of the scene since I was 18. I’m confident, affectionate, playful, and I know exactly how to make someone feel seen, wanted, and completely wrapped around my finger. TRIBUTE 20 OR wishlist purchase otherwise ILL ASSUME YOU’RE GOING TO BE A TIME WASTER My favorite dynamic is ***, I love the psychology, attention, devotion, and power exchange that come with it. I’m not interested in pretending to be someone I’m not. I’m naturally dominant, but I also have a very soft, girlfriend-y side when you earn it. πŸ–€ If you’re looking for someone who can be your Domme, distraction, daily obsession, or favorite person to check in with, you might have found her. πŸ₯€ WHAT I OFFER β€’ πŸ’Έ *** / *** β€’ πŸ“Έ Custom & personal content β€’ πŸ“Ή Video calls β€’ πŸ“ž Phone calls β€’ πŸ’• Girlfriend experiences β€’ πŸ–€ Daily companionship & conversation β€’ πŸ’Œ Personalized attention β€’ πŸ‘  Soft domination & power exchange β€’ πŸŒ™ Consistent, ongoing dynamics πŸ–€ ABOUT ME β€’ Alternative / goth-inspired BBW β€’ Soft Domme energy with a sweet side β€’ Experienced in the scene since 18 β€’ *** is my favorite dynamic β€’ Affectionate, playful & confident β€’ I love consistency and genuine connections β€’ Shoe size: 10.5 πŸ‘  β€’ I appreciate good manners, communication, and people who know how to treat their Domme ⚠ MY KIND OF PERSON I appreciate respect, consistency, honesty, generosity, and good communication. Come correct, know what you want, and don’t waste my time. I’m not here to chase you. I’m here to give you a reason to keep coming back. πŸ–€ If you’re looking for a soft place to fall with a dangerous little edge... say hello. πŸ₯€
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. Just your basic size queen looking to get some holes filled with a minimum of drama. BBC to the front please. Also enjoy impact, rope, and sensation play. NOTE: Unsolicited πŸ† pics will put you on an immediate ban. Don’t deny yourself the opportunity. Safety PSA: Regularly tested (June 2026), I will require evidence of same before any play - I consider this non-negotiable. Another non-negotiable: Condoms required for penetration for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but I regularly engage with multiple partners and I am not a sociopath so it’s not my jam.
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
Kinky and looking to explore so submissive kinks and fantasies. So looking for a couple where woman would be the primary dominant or another dominant woman alone. NO SINGLE MEN!
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.
Female (66) Seattle, Washington
Hi beautiful humans. We are a married, open minded, adventurous couple looking to connect with couples, women, and trans women who are curious, playful, respectful, and into shared chemistry and exploration. I am sensual, warm, and HSV positive and on daily antivirals. He is negative. We believe honesty and communication are part of what makes things sexy, so we are very upfront about that. If you are HSV positive as well, we ask that you are also on treatment. We love flirting, building real connection, and then seeing where the spark goes. Some of our favorite things include boating on sunny days, camping under the stars, traveling whenever we can, video game nights, time at the gun range, and all kinds of spontaneous adventures in between. We are looking for people who enjoy romance, playful energy, and exploring kinks together in a way that feels safe, fun, and mutually exciting. If you are kind, curious, and a little bit naughty in the best way, we would love to hear from you. Let’s see if our energy matches ✨
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
My enjoyment in life is to read, visit museums and art galleries, try different/new restaurants & cuisines. I am polyamorous 🌈✨ & Pansexual πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ ✨I’m looking for a meaningful connection. I am a brat/little who loves sea turtles and have a turtle stuffie named George. I have an addiction to sushi. I am a book girlie. I rather read then go out where the people are πŸ˜‚ I have disability I was born with that affect me. I’m a Gemini β™ŠοΈ (Yes, I am 360lbs and yes I do plan to loose some weight for my health). I need a daddy/soft Dom with a little primal side.
Female (39) Seattle, Washington
New here and no prior experience. The only word I know is BDSM, looking for a male dom to show me how it’s done. Prefer something consistent, no one night stands.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Update April 2025: Im not currently looking for a new dynamic. Thank you for checking my profile though! I’m married and in an open relationship with my husband, hoping to find a genuine D/s dynamic with a rigger who’s excited to learn and grow in rope play and shibari. I’m new to rope but deeply passionate about exploring it and building meaningful experiences. I’m not here for casual hook-ups or to be a placeholder for someone waiting to find their next partner. What I truly want is a deep, authentic connectionβ€”something serious and fulfilling. I’m yoga practitioner, bread baker, snowboarder, and love being outside! If this resonates with you and you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person, please send a thoughtful, creative message. Let’s see if we vibe.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
this dumb, pathetic thing is less than human. treat it as such. it exists for your most depraved and grotesque fantasies. use it accordingly. answers to β€œit” or other dark, degrading names.
Female (31) Seattle, Washington
Leaning into experiences that embrace real connections… saying yes to things that bring joy and pleasure. Finding new ways to expand what I know and feel… reading, travel, connecting with new people… exploring pleasure and desire… I’m drawn to dominant men, who have done the work, and are open and honest… and fun. I have no expectation of an outcome, but wouldn’t deny myself more if it feels right. ** fck ICE to be very clear. ** will not engage without seeing a picture of your face!!
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Switch4switch energy, breast / nipple worship, moderate bondage/rope play, spanking/whipping/biting/impact play that doesn’t involve drawing *** (significant bruising is a-okay), sex in public places, dirty talk, begging to orgasm, audio erotica (fucking _feral_ for this), excellently executed aftercare (tell I’m safe, I’m in control, that my neediness is welcomed & celebrated, that I’m adored), pegging my partner, fun with floggers, being talked through to orgasm, anticipation, wax play, body worship, well-written smut/sexts, squirting (recent achievement unlocked!), being blindfolded, orgasm denial / edging, beautiful hands, exhibitionism, PRAISE! (praise praise and more praise because I am a very good girl), being an occasionally saucy/bratty sub to a pleasure dom, strap ons, stompy boots and an attitude, voyeurism, fisting …I’ll continue to add to this as time goes on, I’d imagine
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
I am someone who is curious and looking for dinner dates and hanging out. I am looking for a partner in crime and fun.
Female (47) Seattle, Washington
hi there I'm 33 and bi! I love to hang out smoke up a blunt I love the arts and love to cook I'd love to find someone who wants to tell each other our secrets and deepest desires!! please don't be afraid to reach out
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
Way to my heart is letting me sit on your face I love being a brat, receiving praise, creampies, role-playing. (New to kink and a bit shy)
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
looking to learn and explore ✨ submissive brat who likes to spend *** on art, rocks, and good food πŸ’‹ love to be spoiled and looking for a dom who can and wants to explore kink with me!
Female (25) Seattle, Washington
Sweet enough to get away with things. Troublemaker enough to make you want to stop me. πŸ˜‰ Brat thats never been tamed. I’m here because vanilla dating has never really been my thing. I’m curious about power exchange and especially interested in a confident, experienced Dom who understands that dominance is about presence, control, trust, and chemistryβ€”not just telling someone what to do. I like a man who can take the lead while still respecting boundaries and knowing the difference between confidence and arrogance. Make me curious. That’s a good start.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
--I am, first and foremost, a nerd. I enjoy anime, playing video games, bingewatching TV shows, cosplaying, playing DnD, reading books, swimming, and traveling. I'm super into mythology, anthology, anthropology, psychology, writing creatively, and whatever else my ADHD spicy brain has had me become obsessed about, lol. Learning mtg right now. --To request a Pussy ***ting commission, please fill out the following form or dm me for it: https://form.jotform.com/261164810603045 --I am looking for a ltr not a fwb or a hook up. I want a dynamic and a relationship. Preferred age range is 30 to 45. --I'm tatted, pierced, and working on completing my ink - finishing up my back piece and then getting my leg blasted. --Likes: giving blowjobs, submission, daddy kink, hair pulling, choking, cumplay, creampies, spanking, shibari, being a rope bunny, manhandling, somnophilia, orgasm denial/control, uniforms, primal play, breeding, praise kink, accents, dirty talk, cockwarming. Super into accents, foriegn languages, dominant women, men's arms, big hands, deep voices. --I am a workaholic mom with pets and a kid. "You can't take the sky from me." --I have Domme'd a few times for previous partners - and I don't mind doing so if it's the right setting and partner. However, I am primarily a Submissive.
Female (32) Seattle, Washington

New members in Seattle

Monika is my name a single woman here looking to find love and be happy with a true single man. I’m looking for a man who isn’t here to play games but here to connect have some fun and to see where it leads us to. If you find me interesting don’t hesitate to get intouch. I don’t bite lol.
Female (49) Seattle, Washington
πŸ–€ YOUR FAVORITE ALTERNATIVE SOFT DOMME πŸ–€ Welcome to my bat corner of the internet. I’m an alternative BBW Soft Domme who has been part of the scene since I was 18. I’m confident, affectionate, playful, and I know exactly how to make someone feel seen, wanted, and completely wrapped around my finger. TRIBUTE 20 OR wishlist purchase otherwise ILL ASSUME YOU’RE GOING TO BE A TIME WASTER My favorite dynamic is ***, I love the psychology, attention, devotion, and power exchange that come with it. I’m not interested in pretending to be someone I’m not. I’m naturally dominant, but I also have a very soft, girlfriend-y side when you earn it. πŸ–€ If you’re looking for someone who can be your Domme, distraction, daily obsession, or favorite person to check in with, you might have found her. πŸ₯€ WHAT I OFFER β€’ πŸ’Έ *** / *** β€’ πŸ“Έ Custom & personal content β€’ πŸ“Ή Video calls β€’ πŸ“ž Phone calls β€’ πŸ’• Girlfriend experiences β€’ πŸ–€ Daily companionship & conversation β€’ πŸ’Œ Personalized attention β€’ πŸ‘  Soft domination & power exchange β€’ πŸŒ™ Consistent, ongoing dynamics πŸ–€ ABOUT ME β€’ Alternative / goth-inspired BBW β€’ Soft Domme energy with a sweet side β€’ Experienced in the scene since 18 β€’ *** is my favorite dynamic β€’ Affectionate, playful & confident β€’ I love consistency and genuine connections β€’ Shoe size: 10.5 πŸ‘  β€’ I appreciate good manners, communication, and people who know how to treat their Domme ⚠ MY KIND OF PERSON I appreciate respect, consistency, honesty, generosity, and good communication. Come correct, know what you want, and don’t waste my time. I’m not here to chase you. I’m here to give you a reason to keep coming back. πŸ–€ If you’re looking for a soft place to fall with a dangerous little edge... say hello. πŸ₯€
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
I'm a motivated, responsible, and hardworking person with a positive outlook on life. I enjoy learning, growing, and making the most of every opportunity. MARYAKISIKA Five5One Could link us GM
Female (37) Seattle, Washington
I'm a single mistress, fun and loving but a strict one. Imagine yourself disappearing from everyday life to find yourself in my world, where your fantasies can come true. Control is a mind-state where I take total dominance of your mind, body and soul, where I govern and you follow and do exactly what I say and expect. When you meet me, you will see how smooth and elegant I move around you and you will adore me as I play with you and your mind in fantasy land, where you will honour Me.
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
Not here to babysit time wasters. I value loyalty, consistency, and proper manners. Know your place, speak with respect, and don’t mistake kindness for weakness. Good behavior gets rewarded. Disrespect gets ignored
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
not really looking for a relationship just looking for someone to have fun with on occasion. If your a clingy person don't hit me up.
Female (21) Seattle, Washington
New here and no prior experience. The only word I know is BDSM, looking for a male dom to show me how it’s done. Prefer something consistent, no one night stands.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.
Female (66) Seattle, Washington
My enjoyment in life is to read, visit museums and art galleries, try different/new restaurants & cuisines. I am polyamorous 🌈✨ & Pansexual πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ ✨I’m looking for a meaningful connection. I am a brat/little who loves sea turtles and have a turtle stuffie named George. I have an addiction to sushi. I am a book girlie. I rather read then go out where the people are πŸ˜‚ I have disability I was born with that affect me. I’m a Gemini β™ŠοΈ (Yes, I am 360lbs and yes I do plan to loose some weight for my health). I need a daddy/soft Dom with a little primal side.
Female (39) Seattle, Washington
A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (53) Seattle, Washington
Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. Just your basic size queen looking to get some holes filled with a minimum of drama. BBC to the front please. Also enjoy impact, rope, and sensation play. NOTE: Unsolicited πŸ† pics will put you on an immediate ban. Don’t deny yourself the opportunity. Safety PSA: Regularly tested (June 2026), I will require evidence of same before any play - I consider this non-negotiable. Another non-negotiable: Condoms required for penetration for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but I regularly engage with multiple partners and I am not a sociopath so it’s not my jam.
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
Hi beautiful humans. We are a married, open minded, adventurous couple looking to connect with couples, women, and trans women who are curious, playful, respectful, and into shared chemistry and exploration. I am sensual, warm, and HSV positive and on daily antivirals. He is negative. We believe honesty and communication are part of what makes things sexy, so we are very upfront about that. If you are HSV positive as well, we ask that you are also on treatment. We love flirting, building real connection, and then seeing where the spark goes. Some of our favorite things include boating on sunny days, camping under the stars, traveling whenever we can, video game nights, time at the gun range, and all kinds of spontaneous adventures in between. We are looking for people who enjoy romance, playful energy, and exploring kinks together in a way that feels safe, fun, and mutually exciting. If you are kind, curious, and a little bit naughty in the best way, we would love to hear from you. Let’s see if our energy matches ✨
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
Brand new to the scene πŸ€ͺ. In the process of figuring out who I am and the things that turn me on. I know this one thing for sure, I don't want to spend time pleasing another and not experiencing mind blowing pleasure as well. I've been neglected by my past relationships, but not anymore because I am not giving up on feeling good. I hope there is someone here that has laot more knowledge about this life style that is willing to invest time and patience for I badly crave it.
Female (49) Seattle, Washington
Kinky and looking to explore so submissive kinks and fantasies. So looking for a couple where woman would be the primary dominant or another dominant woman alone. NO SINGLE MEN!
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
Update April 2025: Im not currently looking for a new dynamic. Thank you for checking my profile though! I’m married and in an open relationship with my husband, hoping to find a genuine D/s dynamic with a rigger who’s excited to learn and grow in rope play and shibari. I’m new to rope but deeply passionate about exploring it and building meaningful experiences. I’m not here for casual hook-ups or to be a placeholder for someone waiting to find their next partner. What I truly want is a deep, authentic connectionβ€”something serious and fulfilling. I’m yoga practitioner, bread baker, snowboarder, and love being outside! If this resonates with you and you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person, please send a thoughtful, creative message. Let’s see if we vibe.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
I am a submissive looking for a true Dom, not just in the bedroom but in life. I like structure, accountability, and mutual respect. I need to be praised when I do good and punished when I do bad. I need open communication and loyalty. I am NOT a brat.
Female (45) Seattle, Washington
I am someone who is curious and looking for dinner dates and hanging out. I am looking for a partner in crime and fun.
Female (47) Seattle, Washington
sonja witty adventurous young at heart looking for my soulmate. right now I will like to connect with someone serious and ready for something meaningful. I’m currently in process of moving permanently as things end up with my divorce, I’m in final stage. I’ve been single for a while now by choice needing the time to heal both emotionally and mentally and now i feel like I’m ready to put myself out again.! I’m witty, outgoing open-minded and definitely love meaningfully conversations. I’d like one who can match my energy both mentally and behind closed doors. looking for fun confident and respectful man who’s not afraid to embrace his wild side. if we click on open to seeing where it lead be it an incredible connection, a long term relationship or something far more meaningful. I’m mother of two boys both in their fun age.
Female (43) Seattle, Washington
New to the kink world and ready to explore new dynamics and my limits. Looking for a Dom who is willing and patient enough to train a new sub.
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
looking to learn and explore ✨ submissive brat who likes to spend *** on art, rocks, and good food πŸ’‹ love to be spoiled and looking for a dom who can and wants to explore kink with me!
Female (25) Seattle, Washington
Way to my heart is letting me sit on your face I love being a brat, receiving praise, creampies, role-playing. (New to kink and a bit shy)
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
first and foremost: i am hsv1+ orally and genitally. I wasn't informed, we used protection, and I'm still here with it. consent is so fucking important. please do not send me photos without permission. im not here to hook up, please don't ask or imply. please do not call me pet names, we have never met and you don't know me like that.
Female (50) Seattle, Washington
Sweet enough to get away with things. Troublemaker enough to make you want to stop me. πŸ˜‰ Brat thats never been tamed. I’m here because vanilla dating has never really been my thing. I’m curious about power exchange and especially interested in a confident, experienced Dom who understands that dominance is about presence, control, trust, and chemistryβ€”not just telling someone what to do. I like a man who can take the lead while still respecting boundaries and knowing the difference between confidence and arrogance. Make me curious. That’s a good start.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
Two dogs. Too many books. Recently acquired a ***ager, ’cause family helps family. 😏 No expectations, no agenda. I like good conversation, subtle flirting… or not so subtle. Depends on what you can get away with. I’m not looking to *** anythingβ€”just curious what might happen. πŸ–€
Female (34) Seattle, Washington

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