Find kinky women in Seattle

I am looking for a relationship/life partner who enjoys the kinky life and hoping that this site will help me find someone like minded when it comes to the physical part BUT that is also looking to move forward in life with someone. I am not looking for anything casual or strictly physical. I’m at a point in life where I want to find that someone who is attracted to more than just my body. Again, I am very into kinks, playing out fantasies, teasing, tension build up, etc. but I am looking to do that with someone who wants more than just the sex. If this seems like you please reach out and let’s get to know each other. I’m into D/S relationship (I’m a brat/sub). If you made it this far and you think we are both looking for the same things please message I would love to get to know you better.
Female (33) Seattle, Washington
A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (53) Seattle, Washington
Hi beautiful humans. We are a married, open minded, adventurous couple looking to connect with couples, women, and trans women who are curious, playful, respectful, and into shared chemistry and exploration. I am sensual, warm, and HSV positive and on daily antivirals. He is negative. We believe honesty and communication are part of what makes things sexy, so we are very upfront about that. If you are HSV positive as well, we ask that you are also on treatment. We love flirting, building real connection, and then seeing where the spark goes. Some of our favorite things include boating on sunny days, camping under the stars, traveling whenever we can, video game nights, time at the gun range, and all kinds of spontaneous adventures in between. We are looking for people who enjoy romance, playful energy, and exploring kinks together in a way that feels safe, fun, and mutually exciting. If you are kind, curious, and a little bit naughty in the best way, we would love to hear from you. Let’s see if our energy matches ✨
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. Just your basic size queen with a free use kink looking to get stuffed with a minimum of drama or expectations. BBC to the front please. Also enjoy impact, rope, and sensation play. NOTE: Unsolicited 🍆 pics will put you on an immediate ban. Don’t deny yourself the opportunity. Safety PSA: I am looking for someone who does not have hangups about the use of condoms for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but I regularly engage with multiple partners and I am not a sociopath so it’s not my jam.
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.
Female (65) Seattle, Washington
Hi, I’m a woman who doesn’t want to submit to fate. I have many hobbies and a lot of life experiences. I wish to have a father who truly understands and knows me; I long for the kind of love that exists between a father and daughter. My father always takes care of me with kindness and consideration. I don’t use *** and I’m very healthy; I get a full check-up every year. I like gentlemen who are humorous and witty, as well as elegant and artistic ladies. Please put away your photos of your penis—it’s really small, lol.
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
I’m interested in making friends and find some fun kinks to explore
Female (47) Seattle, Washington
Kinky and looking to explore so submissive kinks and fantasies. So looking for a couple where woman would be the primary dominant or another dominant woman alone. NO SINGLE MEN!
Female (21) Seattle, Washington
New here and no prior experience. The only word I know is BDSM, looking for a male dom to show me how it’s done. Prefer something consistent, no one night stands.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Hewwo, you can call me little bun! 🐰💗 I am a little looking for a virtual daddy to take care of me, joke around, and have fun playtime with. Though you don’t need to be a sugar daddy, that would be a nice plus heheh
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
Update April 2025: Im not currently looking for a new dynamic. Thank you for checking my profile though! I’m married and in an open relationship with my husband, hoping to find a genuine D/s dynamic with a rigger who’s excited to learn and grow in rope play and shibari. I’m new to rope but deeply passionate about exploring it and building meaningful experiences. I’m not here for casual hook-ups or to be a placeholder for someone waiting to find their next partner. What I truly want is a deep, authentic connection—something serious and fulfilling. I’m yoga practitioner, bread baker, snowboarder, and love being outside! If this resonates with you and you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person, please send a thoughtful, creative message. Let’s see if we vibe.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
this dumb, pathetic thing is less than human. treat it as such. it exists for your most depraved and grotesque fantasies. use it accordingly. answers to “it” or other dark, degrading names.
Female (31) Seattle, Washington
I enjoy witty banter, genuine communication, and kindness. I'm sarcastic, clumsy, nerdy, curvy, fun, warm, quirky, and kind. Practice radical acceptance. INFJ. Touch and Words of Affirmation. Looking to build loving partnerships, friendships and community. Not interested in casual while also having no expectation of definition or required commitment. Date me and maybe become my friend or partner along the way. Open Communication, honesty, curiosity and kindness are a must. Kinky, sensual, supportive love is my goal. Message with your like please.
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
Tatted Seattle based dominatrix looking to meet subs to subject to some ***ful pleasure. please only reach out to me with serious requests. thanks🖤⛓️🦇
Female (29) Seattle, Washington
Neurodivergent friendly, I’m in the club! My best friends moving out of the country next month so I’m networking. Late life realized lesbian. I love music and write poetry, I’m demisexual so I have to feel familiar with you but I would love a cuddle/fwb situation. Focusing on myself, don’t have the capacity for a relationship but would be down for adventures and enjoying a few seasons together!
Female (28) Seattle, Washington
college student - DNI if you don’t live in the USA or gross and old (40+) I’m new to the bdsm scene, as my username states I’m a virgin (oh well!) with very little experience. Open to exploring w/ women - I’m bi-curious hoping for LTR and not the most interested in talking about sex right away. I prefer regular conversations with someone who isn’t a dry texter. I reserve the right to block anyone for any reason
Female (19) Seattle, Washington
Very new to the platform, looking to explore my sexual fantasies and pleasures. Looking for a munch who will bring me to orgasm and make me 💦 with their fingers. Love giving head, and deep throating if it’ll fit, I have a small mouth according to my dentist 😅 Submissive women who wants to experiment with soft bondage play. I like being caressed, licked, and kissed all over. Enjoy sensual soft touch along with some rough play, such as spankings. Love using toys in the bedroom as well to have the ultimate climax.
Female (25) Seattle, Washington
lady parts, 10+ years of kinky experience irl, cottage core pagan, tattoo collector, spooky lil chatterbox. will add more later
Female (33) Seattle, Washington
my name is Hannah (36) married to my hubby donnie (25), seeking a woman who would want to be a third and join us for spicing up the bedroom time with us, and having a really fun time together
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
I am 25 and I am spontaneous, I want to explore double penetration, public sex, and glory holes and I would love if I could find someone to match my freak.
Female (25) Seattle, Washington
I'm very new to this app and new-ish the scene. I'm not sure what I'm looking for quite yet, but I'm open to exploring 😊 In general, I am open to: friends, kinky dates, casual but consistent FWB I don't do one night stands and I require some communication before we meet up. Interests: hiking (🧚‍♀️🍄 not 🥵⛺️), reading, trying new restaurants, video games, writing (I'm writing a book right now), couchrotting with my cat
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
Enjoy the Erotic texts i post on my wall here. Friend Me to see new ones every so often! I stopped taking the people on here seriously a long time ago and accept im not going to chat with people worth meeting. Im not looking to be pursued and inquiries to do so, i ignore. However BDSM is important to me and writing fantasy is a hobby of mine. I am a switch so, roles in the stories vary. Feel free to DM me about a concept and i may write a short erotic text for it. No *** shit you weirdos! Peace :P
Female (23) Seattle, Washington
Leaning into experiences that embrace real connections… saying yes to things that bring joy and pleasure. Finding new ways to expand what I know and feel… reading, travel, connecting with new people… exploring pleasure and desire… I’m drawn to dominant men, who have done the work, and are open and honest… and fun. I have no expectation of an outcome, but wouldn’t deny myself more if it feels right. ** fck ICE to be very clear. ** will not engage without seeing a picture of your face!!
Female (40) Seattle, Washington
Demisexual and connection-first. I’m a switch, but I don’t switch with the same person. Sadomasochist, emotionally intelligent, and big on communication, trust, and getting to know someone before anything else. Not looking for ONS, play partners without depth or those who jump straight into the kink without any negotiation or conversations first.
Female (35) Seattle, Washington

New members in Seattle

New here and no prior experience. The only word I know is BDSM, looking for a male dom to show me how it’s done. Prefer something consistent, no one night stands.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Hi, I’m a woman who doesn’t want to submit to fate. I have many hobbies and a lot of life experiences. I wish to have a father who truly understands and knows me; I long for the kind of love that exists between a father and daughter. My father always takes care of me with kindness and consideration. I don’t use *** and I’m very healthy; I get a full check-up every year. I like gentlemen who are humorous and witty, as well as elegant and artistic ladies. Please put away your photos of your penis—it’s really small, lol.
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
Hewwo, you can call me little bun! 🐰💗 I am a little looking for a virtual daddy to take care of me, joke around, and have fun playtime with. Though you don’t need to be a sugar daddy, that would be a nice plus heheh
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.
Female (65) Seattle, Washington
I am looking for a relationship/life partner who enjoys the kinky life and hoping that this site will help me find someone like minded when it comes to the physical part BUT that is also looking to move forward in life with someone. I am not looking for anything casual or strictly physical. I’m at a point in life where I want to find that someone who is attracted to more than just my body. Again, I am very into kinks, playing out fantasies, teasing, tension build up, etc. but I am looking to do that with someone who wants more than just the sex. If this seems like you please reach out and let’s get to know each other. I’m into D/S relationship (I’m a brat/sub). If you made it this far and you think we are both looking for the same things please message I would love to get to know you better.
Female (33) Seattle, Washington
I’m interested in making friends and find some fun kinks to explore
Female (47) Seattle, Washington
A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (53) Seattle, Washington
Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. Just your basic size queen with a free use kink looking to get stuffed with a minimum of drama or expectations. BBC to the front please. Also enjoy impact, rope, and sensation play. NOTE: Unsolicited 🍆 pics will put you on an immediate ban. Don’t deny yourself the opportunity. Safety PSA: I am looking for someone who does not have hangups about the use of condoms for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but I regularly engage with multiple partners and I am not a sociopath so it’s not my jam.
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Hi beautiful humans. We are a married, open minded, adventurous couple looking to connect with couples, women, and trans women who are curious, playful, respectful, and into shared chemistry and exploration. I am sensual, warm, and HSV positive and on daily antivirals. He is negative. We believe honesty and communication are part of what makes things sexy, so we are very upfront about that. If you are HSV positive as well, we ask that you are also on treatment. We love flirting, building real connection, and then seeing where the spark goes. Some of our favorite things include boating on sunny days, camping under the stars, traveling whenever we can, video game nights, time at the gun range, and all kinds of spontaneous adventures in between. We are looking for people who enjoy romance, playful energy, and exploring kinks together in a way that feels safe, fun, and mutually exciting. If you are kind, curious, and a little bit naughty in the best way, we would love to hear from you. Let’s see if our energy matches ✨
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Kinky and looking to explore so submissive kinks and fantasies. So looking for a couple where woman would be the primary dominant or another dominant woman alone. NO SINGLE MEN!
Female (21) Seattle, Washington
Update April 2025: Im not currently looking for a new dynamic. Thank you for checking my profile though! I’m married and in an open relationship with my husband, hoping to find a genuine D/s dynamic with a rigger who’s excited to learn and grow in rope play and shibari. I’m new to rope but deeply passionate about exploring it and building meaningful experiences. I’m not here for casual hook-ups or to be a placeholder for someone waiting to find their next partner. What I truly want is a deep, authentic connection—something serious and fulfilling. I’m yoga practitioner, bread baker, snowboarder, and love being outside! If this resonates with you and you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person, please send a thoughtful, creative message. Let’s see if we vibe.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
Hullo! I’m a nerdy extrovert who loves video games and socializing in equal measure! I’m here to explore my kinky side, find erotic texting buddies, and build a community!
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
college student - DNI if you don’t live in the USA or gross and old (40+) I’m new to the bdsm scene, as my username states I’m a virgin (oh well!) with very little experience. Open to exploring w/ women - I’m bi-curious hoping for LTR and not the most interested in talking about sex right away. I prefer regular conversations with someone who isn’t a dry texter. I reserve the right to block anyone for any reason
Female (19) Seattle, Washington
Neurodivergent friendly, I’m in the club! My best friends moving out of the country next month so I’m networking. Late life realized lesbian. I love music and write poetry, I’m demisexual so I have to feel familiar with you but I would love a cuddle/fwb situation. Focusing on myself, don’t have the capacity for a relationship but would be down for adventures and enjoying a few seasons together!
Female (28) Seattle, Washington
Very new to the platform, looking to explore my sexual fantasies and pleasures. Looking for a munch who will bring me to orgasm and make me 💦 with their fingers. Love giving head, and deep throating if it’ll fit, I have a small mouth according to my dentist 😅 Submissive women who wants to experiment with soft bondage play. I like being caressed, licked, and kissed all over. Enjoy sensual soft touch along with some rough play, such as spankings. Love using toys in the bedroom as well to have the ultimate climax.
Female (25) Seattle, Washington
my name is Hannah (36) married to my hubby donnie (25), seeking a woman who would want to be a third and join us for spicing up the bedroom time with us, and having a really fun time together
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
Eager Brat Seeks a Firm Hand to Break Me About Me: I'm the brat who secretly craves to be put in my place. I'll push your buttons, talk back, and test every limit you set, not because I want to win, but because I desperately need you to prove you're stronger than me. Behind this defiant attitude is a submissive aching to be claimed, used, and reminded of my place. I want to hate how much I need you. What I'm Craving: Your marks all over me - bite me until I bruise, leave hickies I can't hide The sharp sting of your hand across my face or ass when I mouth off Being denied until I'm begging and crying, then praised for taking it so well ***d until my vision spots, breathless and completely at your mercy Tied up so tightly I can't move an inch while you tease and *** me Your collar locked around my neck as a constant reminder of who owns me Being woken up with your hands on me, used however you please Public *** where everyone knows I'm yours to play with What I Need From You: Someone who sees through my bratty façade to the desperate sub underneath The patience to deal with my attitude and the strength to correct it To be degraded until I cry, then praised until I'm purring against you To be bullied and intimidated until I'm properly submissive To be edged until I'm mindless and begging for release To be hurt in ways that make me wet and comforted in ways that make me feel safe My Place: On my knees, at your feet, marked up from your punishments and eager to please. I'll fight you every step of the way right up until the moment I break, and then I'll be the most devoted pet you've ever owned. My Promise: I'll test your patience, push your buttons, and challenge your authority every chance I get. I need you to be stronger, smarter, and more determined than I am. I need you to break me. Message me if you think you can handle the challenge of taming this brat. I'll probably push you away at first - that's just your cue to try harder.
Female (24) Seattle, Washington
I enjoy witty banter, genuine communication, and kindness. I'm sarcastic, clumsy, nerdy, curvy, fun, warm, quirky, and kind. Practice radical acceptance. INFJ. Touch and Words of Affirmation. Looking to build loving partnerships, friendships and community. Not interested in casual while also having no expectation of definition or required commitment. Date me and maybe become my friend or partner along the way. Open Communication, honesty, curiosity and kindness are a must. Kinky, sensual, supportive love is my goal. Message with your like please.
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
I'm very new to this app and new-ish the scene. I'm not sure what I'm looking for quite yet, but I'm open to exploring 😊 In general, I am open to: friends, kinky dates, casual but consistent FWB I don't do one night stands and I require some communication before we meet up. Interests: hiking (🧚‍♀️🍄 not 🥵⛺️), reading, trying new restaurants, video games, writing (I'm writing a book right now), couchrotting with my cat
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
ENM and partnered trans girl looking to explore my kinkier side. I'm pretty new to this, so be gentle (or not.) I'm a total boss babe on the daily, and want to be anything else at night. Being dommed is cool and all, but I'd rather be defeated :) Hopefully you have enough badges to train me.
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
Hi my name is Alandra, Im a bi 23yr old girl working as a barista at a coffee shop at the moment. I'm a single cat mom with a little spot to call my own in the big city. I love clothes/putting together outfits, tattoos, piercings, smoking weed, nature, horror movies, anime, kdramas, video games, singing + dancing (not professionally) and reading but not reading as much as I used to. I love the TVshows Supernatural, BBC Sherlock, and 2006 Doctor Who Now it's time for a breakdown~ Gemini Sun Gemini Moon Leo Rising Cancer Venus Born on an Eclipse 7 Air placements No earth placements Chinese zodiac, The Horse Arcana 11 Type B ENFP 4w3
Female (23) Seattle, Washington
message me for more, I’m into cutesy playful guys that are a little needy, begging and pleading for my attention and will do anything to get it.
Female (25) Seattle, Washington
curious, shy, and just exploring
Female (28) Seattle, Washington
I'm here to explore what kinks I may or may not be into... New to all of this..
Female (35) Seattle, Washington

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