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I am looking for a relationship/life partner who enjoys the kinky life and hoping that this site will help me find someone like minded when it comes to the physical part BUT that is also looking to move forward in life with someone. I am not looking for anything casual or strictly physical. I’m at a point in life where I want to find that someone who is attracted to more than just my body. Again, I am very into kinks, playing out fantasies, teasing, tension build up, etc. but I am looking to do that with someone who wants more than just the sex. If this seems like you please reach out and let’s get to know each other. I’m into D/S relationship (I’m a brat/sub). If you made it this far and you think we are both looking for the same things please message I would love to get to know you better.
Female (33) Seattle, Washington
Hi beautiful humans. We are a married, open minded, adventurous couple looking to connect with couples, women, and trans women who are curious, playful, respectful, and into shared chemistry and exploration. I am sensual, warm, and HSV positive and on daily antivirals. He is negative. We believe honesty and communication are part of what makes things sexy, so we are very upfront about that. If you are HSV positive as well, we ask that you are also on treatment. We love flirting, building real connection, and then seeing where the spark goes. Some of our favorite things include boating on sunny days, camping under the stars, traveling whenever we can, video game nights, time at the gun range, and all kinds of spontaneous adventures in between. We are looking for people who enjoy romance, playful energy, and exploring kinks together in a way that feels safe, fun, and mutually exciting. If you are kind, curious, and a little bit naughty in the best way, we would love to hear from you. Let’s see if our energy matches ✨
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (53) Seattle, Washington
Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. Poly and partnered to an amazing trans woman, not looking to change that. Just your basic size queen looking to get some holes filled with a minimum of drama. BBC to the front please. Also enjoy impact, rope, and sensation play. NOTE: Unsolicited 🍆 pics will put you on an immediate ban. Don’t deny yourself the opportunity. Safety PSA: Regularly tested (June 2026), I will require evidence of same before any play - I consider this non-negotiable. Another non-negotiable: Condoms required for penetration for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but I regularly engage with multiple partners and I am not a sociopath so it’s not my jam.
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Kinky and looking to explore so submissive kinks and fantasies. So looking for a couple where woman would be the primary dominant or another dominant woman alone. NO SINGLE MEN!
Female (21) Seattle, Washington
Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.
Female (65) Seattle, Washington
I’m interested in making friends and find some fun kinks to explore
Female (47) Seattle, Washington
New here and no prior experience. The only word I know is BDSM, looking for a male dom to show me how it’s done. Prefer something consistent, no one night stands.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Update April 2025: Im not currently looking for a new dynamic. Thank you for checking my profile though! I’m married and in an open relationship with my husband, hoping to find a genuine D/s dynamic with a rigger who’s excited to learn and grow in rope play and shibari. I’m new to rope but deeply passionate about exploring it and building meaningful experiences. I’m not here for casual hook-ups or to be a placeholder for someone waiting to find their next partner. What I truly want is a deep, authentic connection—something serious and fulfilling. I’m yoga practitioner, bread baker, snowboarder, and love being outside! If this resonates with you and you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person, please send a thoughtful, creative message. Let’s see if we vibe.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
this dumb, pathetic thing is less than human. treat it as such. it exists for your most depraved and grotesque fantasies. use it accordingly. answers to “it” or other dark, degrading names
Female (31) Seattle, Washington
Don’t bother to message me if you don’t live in Seattle I will delete the message. please don’t take offense I just want people close by.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
I am 39 and single mom to a 17 year old girl. I like to be dominated, meeting new people and going on adventures. I prefer younger men and women ;) so message me but I’ll go for my age or older too
Female (39) Seattle, Washington
bisexual woman with limited sexual experience, looking to learn more about intimacy and my own desires. I accept pics, and if I like what I see, I may send some back :)
Female (31) Seattle, Washington
I stopped taking people on this site seriously a long time ago. Most of you are not looking to genuinely connect, and most of the people messaging me never had any intention of actually meeting in the first place. i will not reply to low effort “hey” messages, sexual one liners, copy paste horny garbage. Put actual thought into what you say or dont bother messaging me at all. No ***, hookup or FWB inquiries. Don’t send it, don’t ask. I won’t respond to it.
Female (23) Seattle, Washington
Demisexual and connection-first. I’m a switch, but I don’t switch with the same person. Sadomasochist, emotionally intelligent, and big on communication, trust, and getting to know someone before anything else. Not looking for ONS, play partners without depth or those who jump straight into the kink without any negotiation or conversations first.
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
Leaning into experiences that embrace real connections… saying yes to things that bring joy and pleasure. Finding new ways to expand what I know and feel… reading, travel, connecting with new people… exploring pleasure and desire… I’m drawn to dominant men, who have done the work, and are open and honest… and fun. I have no expectation of an outcome, but wouldn’t deny myself more if it feels right. ** fck ICE to be very clear. ** will not engage without seeing a picture of your face!!
Female (40) Seattle, Washington
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Female (36) Seattle, Washington
Hello Im Tink I am an Aquarius I love rock and metal music I'm a single mom of 2 boys and I'm single and ready to mingle! I love to sing and have fun let's go have some food and go to the nearest bar grab and drink and sing a song. Life is short so I am looking for my person. It will take time for me to melt my heart but the right person will have the torch someone that has their life together! No hard *** and employed or going to school single dads wanted 😋🥵🤘🖤
Female (38) Seattle, Washington
I’m a 5ft clown loving hard alcohol drinking brat who loves getting what she wants!! enjoy obedient men who can be my sugar supplier, pets or/and men who know how to take control. I just love women in general. be obsessed with me or don’t talk to me
Female (27) Seattle, Washington
Very new to the platform, looking to explore my sexual fantasies and pleasures. Looking for a munch who will bring me to orgasm and make me 💦 with their fingers. Love giving head, and deep throating if it’ll fit, I have a small mouth according to my dentist 😅 Submissive women who wants to experiment with soft bondage play. I like being caressed, licked, and kissed all over. Enjoy sensual soft touch along with some rough play, such as spankings. Love using toys in the bedroom as well to have the ultimate climax.
Female (25) Seattle, Washington
50 shades of bipolar with no safeword whos also loads of fun
Female (37) Seattle, Washington
Sweet and shy Princess not really looking for anything specific, just wanting to meet more people! BBW but not into those who fetishize BBW's, it makes me uncomfortable. Little bit vanilla, little bit kinky.
Female (38) Seattle, Washington
Neurodivergent friendly, I’m in the club! My best friends moving out of the country next month so I’m networking. Late life realized lesbian. I love music and write poetry, I’m demisexual so I have to feel familiar with you but I would love a cuddle/fwb situation. Focusing on myself, don’t have the capacity for a relationship but would be down for adventures and enjoying a few seasons together!
Female (28) Seattle, Washington
Hullo! I’m a nerdy extrovert who loves video games and socializing in equal measure! I’m here to explore my kinky side, find erotic texting buddies, and build a community!
Female (35) Seattle, Washington

New members in Seattle

New here and no prior experience. The only word I know is BDSM, looking for a male dom to show me how it’s done. Prefer something consistent, no one night stands.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.
Female (65) Seattle, Washington
I am looking for a relationship/life partner who enjoys the kinky life and hoping that this site will help me find someone like minded when it comes to the physical part BUT that is also looking to move forward in life with someone. I am not looking for anything casual or strictly physical. I’m at a point in life where I want to find that someone who is attracted to more than just my body. Again, I am very into kinks, playing out fantasies, teasing, tension build up, etc. but I am looking to do that with someone who wants more than just the sex. If this seems like you please reach out and let’s get to know each other. I’m into D/S relationship (I’m a brat/sub). If you made it this far and you think we are both looking for the same things please message I would love to get to know you better.
Female (33) Seattle, Washington
I’m interested in making friends and find some fun kinks to explore
Female (47) Seattle, Washington
A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (53) Seattle, Washington
Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. Poly and partnered to an amazing trans woman, not looking to change that. Just your basic size queen looking to get some holes filled with a minimum of drama. BBC to the front please. Also enjoy impact, rope, and sensation play. NOTE: Unsolicited 🍆 pics will put you on an immediate ban. Don’t deny yourself the opportunity. Safety PSA: Regularly tested (June 2026), I will require evidence of same before any play - I consider this non-negotiable. Another non-negotiable: Condoms required for penetration for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but I regularly engage with multiple partners and I am not a sociopath so it’s not my jam.
Female (41) Seattle, Washington
Hi beautiful humans. We are a married, open minded, adventurous couple looking to connect with couples, women, and trans women who are curious, playful, respectful, and into shared chemistry and exploration. I am sensual, warm, and HSV positive and on daily antivirals. He is negative. We believe honesty and communication are part of what makes things sexy, so we are very upfront about that. If you are HSV positive as well, we ask that you are also on treatment. We love flirting, building real connection, and then seeing where the spark goes. Some of our favorite things include boating on sunny days, camping under the stars, traveling whenever we can, video game nights, time at the gun range, and all kinds of spontaneous adventures in between. We are looking for people who enjoy romance, playful energy, and exploring kinks together in a way that feels safe, fun, and mutually exciting. If you are kind, curious, and a little bit naughty in the best way, we would love to hear from you. Let’s see if our energy matches ✨
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
Kinky and looking to explore so submissive kinks and fantasies. So looking for a couple where woman would be the primary dominant or another dominant woman alone. NO SINGLE MEN!
Female (21) Seattle, Washington
Update April 2025: Im not currently looking for a new dynamic. Thank you for checking my profile though! I’m married and in an open relationship with my husband, hoping to find a genuine D/s dynamic with a rigger who’s excited to learn and grow in rope play and shibari. I’m new to rope but deeply passionate about exploring it and building meaningful experiences. I’m not here for casual hook-ups or to be a placeholder for someone waiting to find their next partner. What I truly want is a deep, authentic connection—something serious and fulfilling. I’m yoga practitioner, bread baker, snowboarder, and love being outside! If this resonates with you and you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person, please send a thoughtful, creative message. Let’s see if we vibe.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
Maybe a bit of a *** slut. post op trans woman. 0 interest in solo cis men, though not necessarily opposed to couples that involve one. Solo trans men are iffy. I'm a bit of a puppy girl, very much into impact. Say Hi! I definitely don't bite, but I don't mind getting bit 😉
Female (31) Seattle, Washington
Sweet and shy Princess not really looking for anything specific, just wanting to meet more people! BBW but not into those who fetishize BBW's, it makes me uncomfortable. Little bit vanilla, little bit kinky.
Female (38) Seattle, Washington
The Itch You Need to Scratch Highly addictive. Utterly intoxicating. I specialize in the art of the perfect touch—running my nails across your skin until you're completely at my mercy. From light, teasing traces that leave you shivering to deep, intense lines that mark you as mine, I know exactly how to drive you wild. Come get a taste of pure sensory euphoria. You know you want to. please note... this is not a free service 💅🏻
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
Hello Im Tink I am an Aquarius I love rock and metal music I'm a single mom of 2 boys and I'm single and ready to mingle! I love to sing and have fun let's go have some food and go to the nearest bar grab and drink and sing a song. Life is short so I am looking for my person. It will take time for me to melt my heart but the right person will have the torch someone that has their life together! No hard *** and employed or going to school single dads wanted 😋🥵🤘🖤
Female (38) Seattle, Washington
Don’t bother to message me if you don’t live in Seattle I will delete the message. please don’t take offense I just want people close by.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
I just got out of a year and a half relationship so it's going to be hard for me to forget my ex right now but I want to get back into having kinky fun
Female (32) Seattle, Washington
I took off my pictures because I’m pretty sure I’m not gonna find anything. But feel free to sign my petition!! https://c.org/Rdz929Nvzd — -
Female (38) Seattle, Washington
I’m 5’3 about 240lbs and losing more. Ash blonde hair, blue eyes. Definitely a sassy attitude. I love riding motorcycles, camping, hanging out by the fire pit, and spending time with my chosen family. What am I looking for? Glad you asked. So really, I want to be the Passenger Princess. At the end of the day, I’m done being in charge & making decisions. Don’t ask me where I want to eat. Just frickin take me.
Female (56) Seattle, Washington
feral lil goblin girlie. i collect oddities and curiosities, tattoos, piercings, plants and cute clothes. i love arts nd craft days and going to the beach w/ my friends. you'll probably find me in a dive bar or out in nature if i'm not rotting at home. looking to be spoiled 🖤
Female (28) Seattle, Washington
33 year old polyamorous leftist seeking a long-term, committed D/s connection. I’m nerdy, tender, sensitive and deeply moved by small acts of kindness and compassion for the world around me. green flags: people in therapy, people of color (I’m biracial), and people who read books. non-negotiables: building trust before engaging in kink, intentional and ongoing conversations about consent, and a hatred for cybertrucks.
Female (33) Seattle, Washington
My name is Marie and I’ve been assigned by my mistress to seek out a male sub/slave who understands the true meaning of servitude and is ready to surrender control over to her. She wishes to fulfill the fantasy of having a genuine FFM D/s relationship and I’m here to serve🧎‍♀️, please we won’t appreciate time wasters,scammers and predators cause our time is limited so let’s make the most of it😊
Female (30) Seattle, Washington
Mortician ⚰️ Soft-Hearted Chaos 😈 Caring for the dead, raising the living, and studying for my forensic science degree in between. Lover of cemeteries, chemistry, dark humor, intelligent conversation, and being put in my place occasionally. Looking for genuine connection, safe exploration, and someone who can handle a brat without turning it into a power struggle. Fat and Cute 🍑
Female (32) Seattle, Washington
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Female (36) Seattle, Washington
👙🙇Elegant, strict, and unforgettable 💋 I’m not looking for time wasters or fantasy talkers. I want a loyal submissive sissyslut who understands respect, consistency, and how to appreciate their Mistress properly. My attention, guidance, and energy are earned, not demanded. If you want a real Mistress who knows how to pamper, train, and feminize properly, then come correct. Princess treatment comes with devotion 💖
Female (30) Seattle, Washington

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