Find kinky women in Seattle

NOTE: If you don’t plan to actually meet in person for a REAL date do NOT waste my time or yours. I’m not interested in online relationships or pointless conversation that only last a week. I am looking for a relationship/life partner who enjoys the kinky life and hoping that this site will help me find someone like minded when it comes to the physical part BUT that is also looking to move forward in life with someone. I am not looking for anything casual or strictly physical. I’m at a point in life where I want to find that someone who is attracted to more than just my body. Again, I am very into kinks, playing out fantasies, teasing, tension build up, etc. but I am looking to do that with someone who wants more than just the sex. If this seems like you please reach out and let’s get to know each other. I’m into D/S relationship (I’m a brat/sub). If you made it this far and you think we are both looking for the same things please message I would love to get to know you better.
Female (33) Seattle, Washington
Not here to babysit time wasters. I value loyalty, consistency, and proper manners. Know your place, speak with respect, and don’t mistake kindness for weakness. Good behavior gets rewarded. Disrespect gets ignored
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
Brand new to the scene 🤪. In the process of figuring out who I am and the things that turn me on. I know this one thing for sure, I don't want to spend time pleasing another and not experiencing mind blowing pleasure as well. I've been neglected by my past relationships, but not anymore because I am not giving up on feeling good. I hope there is someone here that has laot more knowledge about this life style that is willing to invest time and patience for I badly crave it.
Female (49) Seattle, Washington
A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (53) Seattle, Washington
I'm a single mistress, fun and loving but a strict one. Imagine yourself disappearing from everyday life to find yourself in my world, where your fantasies can come true. Control is a mind-state where I take total dominance of your mind, body and soul, where I govern and you follow and do exactly what I say and expect. When you meet me, you will see how smooth and elegant I move around you and you will adore me as I play with you and your mind in fantasy land, where you will honour Me.
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
Hi beautiful humans. We are a married, open minded, adventurous couple looking to connect with couples, women, and trans women who are curious, playful, respectful, and into shared chemistry and exploration. I am sensual, warm, and HSV positive and on daily antivirals. He is negative. We believe honesty and communication are part of what makes things sexy, so we are very upfront about that. If you are HSV positive as well, we ask that you are also on treatment. We love flirting, building real connection, and then seeing where the spark goes. Some of our favorite things include boating on sunny days, camping under the stars, traveling whenever we can, video game nights, time at the gun range, and all kinds of spontaneous adventures in between. We are looking for people who enjoy romance, playful energy, and exploring kinks together in a way that feels safe, fun, and mutually exciting. If you are kind, curious, and a little bit naughty in the best way, we would love to hear from you. Let’s see if our energy matches ✨
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
Kinky and looking to explore so submissive kinks and fantasies. So looking for a couple where woman would be the primary dominant or another dominant woman alone. NO SINGLE MEN!
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. Poly and partnered to an amazing trans woman, not looking to change that. Just your basic size queen looking to get some holes filled with a minimum of drama. BBC to the front please. Also enjoy impact, rope, and sensation play. NOTE: Unsolicited 🍆 pics will put you on an immediate ban. Don’t deny yourself the opportunity. Safety PSA: Regularly tested (June 2026), I will require evidence of same before any play - I consider this non-negotiable. Another non-negotiable: Condoms required for penetration for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but I regularly engage with multiple partners and I am not a sociopath so it’s not my jam.
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
I’m interested in making friends and find some fun kinks to explore
Female (47) Seattle, Washington
Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.
Female (66) Seattle, Washington
New here and no prior experience. The only word I know is BDSM, looking for a male dom to show me how it’s done. Prefer something consistent, no one night stands.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Update April 2025: Im not currently looking for a new dynamic. Thank you for checking my profile though! I’m married and in an open relationship with my husband, hoping to find a genuine D/s dynamic with a rigger who’s excited to learn and grow in rope play and shibari. I’m new to rope but deeply passionate about exploring it and building meaningful experiences. I’m not here for casual hook-ups or to be a placeholder for someone waiting to find their next partner. What I truly want is a deep, authentic connection—something serious and fulfilling. I’m yoga practitioner, bread baker, snowboarder, and love being outside! If this resonates with you and you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person, please send a thoughtful, creative message. Let’s see if we vibe.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
this dumb, pathetic thing is less than human. treat it as such. it exists for your most depraved and grotesque fantasies. use it accordingly. answers to “it” or other dark, degrading names
Female (31) Seattle, Washington
CIS WOMEN ONLY👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 I’m ENM (solo) looking to explore the other side of my sexuality with a cis woman. I love anything nature related. Hiking, pottery (it’s clay after all), or even just going to the farmers market and having a picnic. 🌳🏕️ I tend to overshare, so shut me up with a kiss 😉 Bratty and goofy all in one 🙈
Female (30) Seattle, Washington
Builder of worlds. Professional troublemaker. Occasional siren. 🌹 If you made it this far, send me a rose before your first message. I’m endlessly fascinated by people. I’ve learned that if you pay close enough attention, they’ll usually tell you exactly who they are. By profession, I create immersive experiences where psychology, trust, curiosity, and a little healthy mischief all tend to collide. Let’s just say I spend a fair amount of time encouraging people to follow instructions. 😉 Outside of work I’m usually making art, wandering through botanical gardens, collecting beautiful objects, or convincing myself - I don't need another fun toy for my work. ⛓️ Mostly here to meet thoughtful people, build community, and have interesting conversations. If you’re curious about what I do, you’re welcome to ask. Kindness & attention to detail gets my attention. 👀 Curiosity keeps it. Life is more fun when it leaves a mark. 👠
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
im convinced nobody even reads this thing🤣 menu available a little bratty a little nice. taken by the best Dom around looking to meet some friends and connect with like minded people c: I have some occasional feet pics here and there😏
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
Looking for (fwb) my new bestie w/benefits to have some fun sexy time together but also down for spending non sexual time together too! (not interested in acts w men) I need a girls girls In a ENM relationship. 👫 Just me exploring w female presenting ppl. Down for 1 night flings or if vibes are right 😌 we could be girlfriends. Aries ☀️ Pisces 🌙 Sagittarius ️ ENFP / Neurodivergent/ 420 friendly + psychonaut 🌌 (psychedelics) My kinda fun is raving, 💫 renegades, nature time, sauna & yoga. 🧘‍♂️ Describe myself as; spontaneous, more extroverted, quirky, kinky, sweet & giving. 💋
Female (27) Seattle, Washington
Well hello there~ my name is Robin. I'm a trans woman out looking for adventures! I'm not exaaaactly sure what I'm looking for, other than having some fun and amazing experiences. some things might include: -Doing group activities -Being a pet/slave for a single or couple -being trained -Doing latex play -Orgasm control/denial (love chastity cages 😍) -Generally being a deviant? just hit me up if you're interested and we can chat!
Female (28) Seattle, Washington
I’m down to earth, enjoy the simple things in life. I also enjoy traveling, meeting new people and making the most of every day.
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
I am 39 and single mom. I like to be dominated, meeting new people and going on adventures. I haven’t had sex or anything in 3 years bc it’s hard to find someone I attracted to, who will show up or who lives close I prefer younger men and women ;) so message me but I’ll go for my age or older too iam so tired of this app. I’ve messaged many people I am interested in and then they block me for no fucking reason. Example I messaged a guy asking to hear what he sounded like and he blocked me. or they delete their profile after talking about wanting to hook up. Guess I’ll be sexless the rest of my life :(
Female (39) Seattle, Washington
bisexual woman with limited sexual experience, looking to learn more about intimacy and my own desires. I accept pics, and if I like what I see, I may send some back :)
Female (31) Seattle, Washington
Hey I am 27 in the Seattle area. Some things I’m into: Sims, roller skating, reading, violin, learning to play the harp, drawing/coloring, I love a good psychological thriller, into the occult, hypnosis, remote viewing, psychology and human biology buff. Favorite song is Submerge Till We Become The Sun by Maxwell. Here for sub(s) as well as friends, send me a message if interested and tell me what u enjoy kink and vanilla. To the subs who are interested: I’m here for lifestyle service based subs. Open to sessions that also would involve toy(s), rp, heavy rubber, vac, edge play, needle/med, pyro, hypno, brainwashing, sensory deprivation, witchcraft, and pegging (just to name a few) ON TOP of lifestyle/service. Do not ask for pics, I am discreet and I can do that when we schedule to meet. IRL ONLY dynamic, if you are inquiring about being my sub. I’m really into the energy exchange when it comes to lust lol I dunno if anyone will understand what I mean by this, but if you can guess then go ahead and tell me what you think I mean. Also if you know your Mars, Mercury, Moon and Venus astrological placements lmk.
Female (27) Seattle, Washington
Married couple of 20+ years madly in love Looking for play partners and/or group kink community MF/MM Bi-Couples & Threesome Seekers Note from Rae: If you are straight and can’t function by seeing or even admiring another dick, please don’t bother. It’s a waste of time. Please, trimmed to short beards and goatees only. Our girl is sensitive. Into: Voyeurism, Erotic Clothing, Hoods, Hot Wife, Centerfolding, Group and Parties, Brat Behavior, Dirty Talk, Pegging, Toys, FWB, GGG Wife-Bi: 43/BBW (curvy)/5’8” Husband-Omni: 43/HWP/6’ Serious consensual inquiries only Clean and STD free Pro-LGBTQIA & Pro Sex-Radical Feminism
Female (43) Seattle, Washington
I'm a bratty switch who tends submissive, living in Seattle. If you can talk me into it, I'd love to watch you make yourself moan. Non-monogamous with a spouse and boyfriend. Mostly looking for online connections right now, for convenience, but I love meeting in person with the right connection. Love a pleasure dom. Tell me your fantasies. ACAB free 🇵🇸
Female (32) Seattle, Washington

New members in Seattle

I'm a single mistress, fun and loving but a strict one. Imagine yourself disappearing from everyday life to find yourself in my world, where your fantasies can come true. Control is a mind-state where I take total dominance of your mind, body and soul, where I govern and you follow and do exactly what I say and expect. When you meet me, you will see how smooth and elegant I move around you and you will adore me as I play with you and your mind in fantasy land, where you will honour Me.
Female (34) Seattle, Washington
Not here to babysit time wasters. I value loyalty, consistency, and proper manners. Know your place, speak with respect, and don’t mistake kindness for weakness. Good behavior gets rewarded. Disrespect gets ignored
Female (35) Seattle, Washington
New here and no prior experience. The only word I know is BDSM, looking for a male dom to show me how it’s done. Prefer something consistent, no one night stands.
Female (26) Seattle, Washington
Sensuous female sub looking for male dominant Do you enjoy the power exchange? The excitement that a simple spoken word can dictate? Or the connection a simple touch can convey? I work, live alone & am looking a monogamous Dom to share a passion with. You, should be a gentleman outside the four walls of home & an exotic dominant within those four walls of home.
Female (66) Seattle, Washington
NOTE: If you don’t plan to actually meet in person for a REAL date do NOT waste my time or yours. I’m not interested in online relationships or pointless conversation that only last a week. I am looking for a relationship/life partner who enjoys the kinky life and hoping that this site will help me find someone like minded when it comes to the physical part BUT that is also looking to move forward in life with someone. I am not looking for anything casual or strictly physical. I’m at a point in life where I want to find that someone who is attracted to more than just my body. Again, I am very into kinks, playing out fantasies, teasing, tension build up, etc. but I am looking to do that with someone who wants more than just the sex. If this seems like you please reach out and let’s get to know each other. I’m into D/S relationship (I’m a brat/sub). If you made it this far and you think we are both looking for the same things please message I would love to get to know you better.
Female (33) Seattle, Washington
I’m interested in making friends and find some fun kinks to explore
Female (47) Seattle, Washington
A heartbroken sub whose beloved Dom of two years had to move away and is now unable to continue a relationship. Looking to fall in love all over again, allowing me to totally give myself over to my forever partner and Dom going forward. I promise to show the right man not only my full and uncompromising submission but also an insatiable appetite for shared pleasure. I will become your everything, as you will be mine.
Female (53) Seattle, Washington
Fit, athletic, high-libido, woman-shaped body looking for a one-time or ongoing NSA situation with like-minded humans of any gender. Open to couples and other multiple-partner configurations. Poly and partnered to an amazing trans woman, not looking to change that. Just your basic size queen looking to get some holes filled with a minimum of drama. BBC to the front please. Also enjoy impact, rope, and sensation play. NOTE: Unsolicited 🍆 pics will put you on an immediate ban. Don’t deny yourself the opportunity. Safety PSA: Regularly tested (June 2026), I will require evidence of same before any play - I consider this non-negotiable. Another non-negotiable: Condoms required for penetration for both our well-being - I understand that your breeding kink is important to you, but I regularly engage with multiple partners and I am not a sociopath so it’s not my jam.
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
Hi beautiful humans. We are a married, open minded, adventurous couple looking to connect with couples, women, and trans women who are curious, playful, respectful, and into shared chemistry and exploration. I am sensual, warm, and HSV positive and on daily antivirals. He is negative. We believe honesty and communication are part of what makes things sexy, so we are very upfront about that. If you are HSV positive as well, we ask that you are also on treatment. We love flirting, building real connection, and then seeing where the spark goes. Some of our favorite things include boating on sunny days, camping under the stars, traveling whenever we can, video game nights, time at the gun range, and all kinds of spontaneous adventures in between. We are looking for people who enjoy romance, playful energy, and exploring kinks together in a way that feels safe, fun, and mutually exciting. If you are kind, curious, and a little bit naughty in the best way, we would love to hear from you. Let’s see if our energy matches ✨
Female (42) Seattle, Washington
Brand new to the scene 🤪. In the process of figuring out who I am and the things that turn me on. I know this one thing for sure, I don't want to spend time pleasing another and not experiencing mind blowing pleasure as well. I've been neglected by my past relationships, but not anymore because I am not giving up on feeling good. I hope there is someone here that has laot more knowledge about this life style that is willing to invest time and patience for I badly crave it.
Female (49) Seattle, Washington
Kinky and looking to explore so submissive kinks and fantasies. So looking for a couple where woman would be the primary dominant or another dominant woman alone. NO SINGLE MEN!
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
Update April 2025: Im not currently looking for a new dynamic. Thank you for checking my profile though! I’m married and in an open relationship with my husband, hoping to find a genuine D/s dynamic with a rigger who’s excited to learn and grow in rope play and shibari. I’m new to rope but deeply passionate about exploring it and building meaningful experiences. I’m not here for casual hook-ups or to be a placeholder for someone waiting to find their next partner. What I truly want is a deep, authentic connection—something serious and fulfilling. I’m yoga practitioner, bread baker, snowboarder, and love being outside! If this resonates with you and you’re genuinely interested in getting to know me as a person, please send a thoughtful, creative message. Let’s see if we vibe.
Female (44) Seattle, Washington
i’m a very sweet person and loving kind sub. I’m not very sexual unless I really trust the person I am a little bit into ***. I know that’s really weird, but I really want to meet someone who is a psychopath like me...
Female (18) Seattle, Washington
Looking for (fwb) my new bestie w/benefits to have some fun sexy time together but also down for spending non sexual time together too! (not interested in acts w men) I need a girls girls In a ENM relationship. 👫 Just me exploring w female presenting ppl. Down for 1 night flings or if vibes are right 😌 we could be girlfriends. Aries ☀️ Pisces 🌙 Sagittarius ️ ENFP / Neurodivergent/ 420 friendly + psychonaut 🌌 (psychedelics) My kinda fun is raving, 💫 renegades, nature time, sauna & yoga. 🧘‍♂️ Describe myself as; spontaneous, more extroverted, quirky, kinky, sweet & giving. 💋
Female (27) Seattle, Washington
Classic Kinky nerd. Solo Poly. Cat mom since all the kids grew up. Exploring limits. Demi Pan Ace till I get comfortable with people. Audhd, extrovert. Let's get a drink or some food and hang out. 😁
Female (48) Seattle, Washington
im convinced nobody even reads this thing🤣 menu available a little bratty a little nice. taken by the best Dom around looking to meet some friends and connect with like minded people c: I have some occasional feet pics here and there😏
Female (22) Seattle, Washington
I’m 46, confident in who I am, and at a point in life where I value genuine connection over games. Friends would describe me as kind, loyal, and quick to laugh. I enjoy good conversation, exploring new places, quiet evenings at home, and making the most of life’s little moments. I’m looking to meet a man who is honest, emotionally mature, and ready to build something meaningful. Whether it’s trying a new restaurant, taking a weekend road trip, or simply enjoying coffee and conversation, I believe the best memories are made together. If you’re authentic, have a good sense of humor, and are looking for a real partnership, I’d love to get to know you.
Female (46) Seattle, Washington
hey there! I am interested in connecting with a dom who is familiar with AuDHD. I am also asexual (demi and fray) and rely on an emotional connection that feels genuine. Ideally my dom wants to care for me (checking in on my well being and giving me permission to take care of myself- bonus if this includes being fed and paying for things but that is not what I will expect!) without expectation of sex. If I truly feel like sex isn’t an expectation, I tend to crave it. I want to be worshipped through being acted upon. Sensory deprivation (blindfolds and being engulfed in music) is desirable! It helps with the ADHD and focusing on the pleasure. I enjoy sensory play like biting (giving and receiving), flogging, wax play, and curious to explore more. I would like to do more shibari. If the connection is right, I can see wanting to be a pet of sorts. I tend to have a loyal headspace when trust is earned and a desire to please (true golden retriever energy). With the AuDHD, bodies and fluids are weird, but familiarity and smell (or whatever my brains decides to do) help me feel comfortable/excited. Hard no on *** or ***. Receiving butt play is fine, though girthy folks… please no. Giving butt play… possible with hands and toys. ***/knife play is a hard pass as well. And if you made it to this point… Hi! please send a message if you’re curious to see how our chemistry is. Tell me about your pet(s) or what kind of pet you’d have if you had one.
Female (37) Seattle, Washington
I'm a bratty switch who tends submissive, living in Seattle. If you can talk me into it, I'd love to watch you make yourself moan. Non-monogamous with a spouse and boyfriend. Mostly looking for online connections right now, for convenience, but I love meeting in person with the right connection. Love a pleasure dom. Tell me your fantasies. ACAB free 🇵🇸
Female (32) Seattle, Washington
Married couple of 20+ years madly in love Looking for play partners and/or group kink community MF/MM Bi-Couples & Threesome Seekers Note from Rae: If you are straight and can’t function by seeing or even admiring another dick, please don’t bother. It’s a waste of time. Please, trimmed to short beards and goatees only. Our girl is sensitive. Into: Voyeurism, Erotic Clothing, Hoods, Hot Wife, Centerfolding, Group and Parties, Brat Behavior, Dirty Talk, Pegging, Toys, FWB, GGG Wife-Bi: 43/BBW (curvy)/5’8” Husband-Omni: 43/HWP/6’ Serious consensual inquiries only Clean and STD free Pro-LGBTQIA & Pro Sex-Radical Feminism
Female (43) Seattle, Washington
Just a thick girl looking for love Recently moved to the Seattle area and looking to find like minded people. Hopefully make friends and find a real connection. I personally believe that sexual compatibility is just as important as emotional compatibility for a long lasting meaningful relationship. I’m pretty open and honest about things. I dislike small talk, but love talking about deeper topics and have a brain full of fun facts. 😊
Female (32) Seattle, Washington
I’m down to earth, enjoy the simple things in life. I also enjoy traveling, meeting new people and making the most of every day.
Female (36) Seattle, Washington
I'm a cougar who doesn't look, act or feel my age. I love hot sex with younger men. I'd like to push my boundaries by trying out new things. Would like a dominant man as at times I can be submissive.
Female (58) Seattle, Washington

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